There's a fine difference between being selfish and showing self love!!
Loving yourself "only" is selfishness..
Loving yourself "also" is self love..
There's a fine difference between being selfish and showing self love!!
Loving yourself "only" is selfishness..
Loving yourself "also" is self love..
As someone rightly said, "Life is not a wish granting factory".
Life isn't predictable, sometimes what happens in our life would be things we couldn't ever envision happening in anyone's lives.. There may be things that really brings us down or may cheer us up..
Life is a parcel, with its goods and bads..
We cannot choose to only have the good and ignore the bad.. But what we can do is accept the reality and live on!!
My dad keeps telling, theres a descent to every ascent, but there's also an ascent to every descent!! We always think in our darkest times that life has been unfair to us, but never once in our happiest time do we say that we have received beyond our worth!!
There's always a better tomorrow, the happiness that we deserve.. Its just a turn away.. All we need to do is to keep that brave face, that smile and hope alive till we reach that turning!!
As is said in the book Everything is fucked, "being heroic is
the ability to conjure hope where there is none. To strike a match to light up
the void. To show us a possibility for a better world—not a better world we
want to exist, but a better world we didn’t know could exist. To take a
situation where everything seems to be absolutely fucked and still somehow
make it good."
All it takes is to be that hero in your own lives and to spread your heroism to others!!
Sometimes all you can do is accept the past, remember the good memories, forget the bitter ones and move on!!!
The people that pull you down tries to keep you down by going to any extent!!
Real victory is when you can move on and learn to let immaterial things pass by!!!
You may get upset or you may get up and set things right!!
The latter is thrilling!!
#Monday motivation
If you wanna pass on a story, know it first!! Carrying rumors and spreading it won't benefit anyone.. And people who have forgotten what being mature or grown up is, I'm sorry, age will not help you learn.. I wish you peace and I hope tarnishing others helps you find it, else the entire thing just got pointless!!
Blaming the world but not accepting your flaws is the sign of immaturity!! Hope someday you grow up!
Peace out!! #controllinganoutburstofemotion
When and if you hear something about someone, either keep it to yourself or verify before talking..
Rumour spreads faster than wildfire because of the inquisitive nature of humans to knows what's happening in someone else's life!!
Some people are a craze, some people are a blessing, some people are lessons, some people are guides, some people are friends and few people means life!!
And all of them together makes life colorful and bright 😊
Mistakes maketh a man, because man aint no God!!.
Random quote coined by sister at 2am conversation!!!
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor's cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out -
The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit
A beautiful poem by John Greenleaf Whitier!! When you're low such motivators push you up!! With great difficulty you push yourself out and fill yourself with more positivity..
Similarly when you're at the peak of positivity and confidence, something shakes you up.. It may be few words of anger from someone close, it may be a situation, it maybe an ignorance of some person.. There's nothing great needed to shatter someone's confidence.. The slip from that peak is lower than what you began at the first place.. Then you think there's no way to get out of it ever!!
Dwelling on it will only cause more pain and worries.. Finding your positivity amidst it is a Herculean task.. Its not only difficult but also very essential to pick yourself from that pit.. All you need is a determined mindset that you're not gonna let anything break you or your happiness.. When you've got the right support from the right people, when your focus is on keeping your happiness, you tend to find a way out.. The best way to get out of the negativity is getting yourself off the situation by working a way out of it!!!
Always remember, there's a rainbow after the rains.. Even if a situation seems bleak, there's many more reason to be happy.. All it takes is a look in the right direction.. After all, the greatest wizard Albus Dumbeldore has taught us that "Happiness can be found even in the darkest places, if only one remembers to turn on the light!"
Some people make noise to make their point known!!
Some people keep calm to let their point across!!
If a prophet can hear God in calmness, so will people be proved right in time!!
The true test of a persons real nature is definitely time!
Things that can't be undone :
A word after its spoken
A heart after its broken
An arrow/bullet after its released
A turn on the road after its missed!!!
The nature of a person is left for time to unearth!!!
After all, you can only fool some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time!!
The wise person will hold his peace n let time answer! It's not mature to throw stones at barking dogs!
#inner peace
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