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I'm on a detox, removing toxicities from my system.

So if you're not hearing from me, you just learnt why!! 😜

My world in 3ft!

I did carry him 9 months, nurture him since then.. But when he was born, he gave birth to a mom.. A mom who loses her self and yet brings it all together seeing his face.. A mom who gets the motivation to do a lot of things knowing she's an example to the little one that looks up to her.. A mom who has enough reasons to give up under pressure but doesn't since she's gotta be the strength to the little guy..

He's the corner stone of my life, the one that this new life is based on.. He's my safe haven when I'm low.. He's my inner child that forgets the worries and lives in the moment.. He is just a little tiny being with his innocent smiles and endless chatters that just gives me the reason to carry on.. He is the one that makes me have a smile every night I lay down to sleep.. 

He doesn't realize how much comfort his hug means to me..

He doesn't understand how destressing it is to cuddle him every night..

He doesn't realize how much my heart melts when he tells me "I love you hundreds thousands"..

He doesn't understand how much he means to me nor can my words ever express them enough!!

All I can say to him is "You mean the world to me, my love!"  

He wouldn't even understand the depth of those words.. But he knows, I'll always have his back.. He will grow up to know I'm gonna be his strength, his guide, his friend, his mentor and the one that teaches him to survive this world.. Life isn't fair, we just gotta toughen up and face it; face it with confidence, live it with integrity, be open to an adventure and always be genuine and true!! These are my teachings for him and you!!!

They say that I gave him life, but they don't realize he gave me meaning for my life..

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There are just few things that cannot be fixed, the rest all mistakes always have a fix!!

Eg. When an omelette fails, turn it into scrambled eggs!! 

#Cooking hacks - #Life hacks 

New beginnings and new resolutions!!

Novelty is always a craze : be it in fashion, stories or songs.. We always need something new to challenge and inspire us.. And new beginnings are always a chance to do something that we couldn't do so yet..

New year is celebrated with great pomp all around the world.. Technically its just a date we keep up with for earth completing a revolution.. Its just change of a calendar and date.. This year is extra special because it also is the beginning of a new decade.. 

What makes a new year special is the resolution to do things this year which you couldn't in the last.. Nothing changes until you change.. Drastic changes don't last, so start with baby steps.. Goals should be Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time Bound.. In short, a goal should be SMART.. And what better day to start than today..

And in a time where mental health is more affected than physical health, it is quintessential that we make deliberate efforts to realize the importance of sanity in our lives and in our loved ones.. The more connected we are to each other over gadgets, the more distant we've been with them in person.. This year let us also make an effort to connect.. In the book "Sapiens" the author describes how wheat or animals domesticated humans instead of humans domesticating them.. In similar lines, the technology that we developed for our ease is becoming master over Us.. 

In the coming decade, let's go back a decade or two and get back to being more around for people physically than over technology.. There's more comfort over a physical hug than 🤗.. Let us start digital fasting, speaking over texting and being available to one another.. The presence of people is a boon, and that is talking from experience..

Wishing you all a new beginning with loads of love, good health, success and inter-personal relations.. Happy new year!!!